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Tactless

The Internet is enabling the proliferation of a culture entirely bereft of tact.

Think of it. Online, you can be completely anonymous and almost entirely unaccountable for your actions. This kind of anonymity can be a great thing. It can encourage debate and discussion where censorship (or even persecution) would otherwise result. But it also removes the perceived necessity to act with candor when dealing with other people. In and of itself, this results in little more than a couple of anonymous Internet-goers getting each others’ panties in a bunch. But I think it’s trickling down into actual human civilization now, particularly here in the United States.

I’ve been “online” since the early 1990s. Back then, it was a different experience. Most people who had Internet access were either computer science students or professionals, which naturally contributed a sort of intellectual quality and ethical standard to a majority of dealings online. Nowadays, I rarely post on message boards or other open forums of discussion, because so many people get so easily rubbed the wrong way, and have such a hard time being civil about their disagreements. Usually I read forums, absorb information, and contribute only when I have something meaningful to say. On one board where I’ve been a member for six years, my post count is just under 2,300. It takes others just weeks to accumulate the same number, although most of what they have to say is dreck.

People start flamewars over the most ludicrous shit. In addition to the age-old PC vs. Mac wars that are still going on, you’ll have people insulting each others’ integrity over something as inane as which is the best online DVD rental service, or whether American cars are engineered by a bunch of peanut-eating chimpanzees. And then there are the people who believe their opinion is so important it deserves to be injected, in the most hostile manner possible, into every conversation imaginable. For example, the poster on our local newspaper website, who felt it necessary to refer to U.S. soldiers as “war criminals” and compare the U.S. military to the Wehrmacht — on a story about the tragic death of a U.S. soldier in a car accident on our local roads.

I can’t help but draw a parallel between the increasingly boorish online behavior of most Americans, and their increasingly boorish behavior in real-life social situations. Obviously, the existence of the Internet is not at fault, but it provides a handy medium for those who desire to shed their ethical restraints to do just that, after which they become accustomed to the practice.

Sir Isaac Newton purportedly said, “Tact is the art of making a point without making an enemy.” It is an art that is sadly lost on most of modern American society.


3 Comments are Posted on This Entry

Pooch

I agree. (And whether you are for or against the situation in Iraq, calling U.S. soldiers “war criminals” and comparing the military to Nazis is so far removed from reality it’s not funny. Get a clue, people.)

That’s one reason I don’t really get into message boards and the like online; since all the people you talk to on there are pretty much strangers, I tend to be a bit reserved and, y’know, polite. Of course, that’s the best way to get completely ignored by everyone on said boards. It’s a win-win situation! I just can’t jump in and go, “YUOR MOM!!1″ without feeling stupid.

Of course, the places where those types of jerks hang out are usually full of idiots and best avoided, anyway.

Chief Oddball

It’s interesting that you noted how being reserved and polite was the best way to get completely ignored on a message board. You’re right! As it usually happens, when I post on boards, it’s as if I never said anything because no one will respond to the point. Sometimes I wonder if people have got me on their ignore list, or that my account is in some “managerial review” mode where only I can see my own text until it’s been vetted by some mod.

Then I realize, why would any of these guys actually respond to me? I wasn’t adversarial, I presented a point while also offering at least a partial understanding of the opposing view, and my facts are difficult to refute. That isn’t any fun. “YUOR MOM!!1″ is about all anyone could possibly say to me if they wanted to get hostile, and it’s much easier (and more fun) to pick apart clueless noobs whose flawed logic is showing.

So yeah, I too will normally just use forums as a place to get information, particularly about products I own, news about upcoming games, etc. Seems to work well!

Ironically, just today, our local newspaper website erupted in “anti-flamewar vigilanteism.” Some guy apparently got sick of the anonymity-fueled bashing on the site, and is now flooding the comments thread of every story with post after post of copy-and-paste grandstanding against the practice, urging readers to contact the newspaper executives and demand “that they put a stop to it.” How the paper’s management is going to make people play nice is beyond me. Maybe he means “tell them to take the comment feature away”?

What was apparently lost on the man was the fact that he, himself, was being incredibly hostile about his opinion — and, like the anonymous posters he loathes, he did it all under a generic screen name. Pot, meet kettle…

Pooch

That’s exactly how it is with me on message boards. I’ll post something relevant to the conversation, then watch as everyone else diverts onto some other topic (or banters about “wittily”) and ignores my post. Hey, it’s just like real life! Amazing, Herb!

And perhaps it goes without saying, but I hardly ever try and joke around on message boards, because even with smilies my brand of humour doesn’t translate too well into text. :)

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